Strap-On Harnesses

Our strap-on range is focused on quality harnesses: the Mina Eclipse, Lustre and Shimmer harnesses, and the Loving Joy Universal Harness. A good harness is the foundation of comfortable strap-on play, and choosing one separately lets you pair it with the dildo that suits you best. Hollow unisex strap-ons are in our couples’ range.

Look for adjustable straps that sit securely on the hips without digging in, and an O-ring that fits your dildo’s base. Most harnesses work with dildos that have a flared or suction-cup base, so browse our dildos category for compatible options. Silicone dual-density dildos are a popular pairing because they hold their shape well.

First time? Start with a smaller dildo, use plenty of water-based lube and take it slowly. Communication matters more than technique; agree on a signal to pause or stop.

Clean the harness according to its material: most fabric and faux-leather harnesses can be hand-washed with mild soap and left to dry. Wash the dildo separately after each use.